Holy crap England!

The horrifying moment when a three‑year‑old boy was suddenly grabbed and thrown into a crocodile enclosure at a British zoo is the kind of event that stops time. Families were enjoying an ordinary day out when a mentally unstable stranger, acting without warning or reason, lifted the child and hurled him over the barrier into the pit below. Gasps turned to screams as the boy hit the ground inside the enclosure, surrounded by crocodiles—ancient predators capable of explosive speed and devastating force. The shock of the fall left him crying and disoriented, while the reptiles began to shift toward the unexpected movement. In those first seconds, the situation was as close to catastrophic as any parent could imagine.

What happened next was driven entirely by instinct and courage. A zookeeper — the owner of the zoo — who had been nearby, didn’t hesitate for even a heartbeat. She leapt into the enclosure, and members of her family who were present followed her in, fully aware of the danger they were stepping into. As the crocodiles reacted to the commotion, one managed to clamp its jaws around the child, and the rescuers were suddenly fighting against both time and a predator’s raw power. They threw themselves between the boy and the animals, shouting and striking the ground to distract them while she wrestled the child free from the crocodile’s mouth, prying him loose with a desperation that left no room for fear. Entering a crocodile enclosure is something even trained professionals avoid unless absolutely necessary; a crocodile can lunge faster than a human can react, and one wrong step could have meant disaster. Yet the rescuers moved with a clarity and urgency that defied the chaos around them. Once the boy was freed, they lifted him into their arms and passed him up to safety before climbing out themselves, miraculously unharmed.

The fact that this happened in a British zoo—a place families visit expecting safety, education, and calm—makes the incident even more shocking. This was not a tragic accident or a moment of misjudgment. It was an act of violence committed by a stranger in the grip of severe mental instability, a reminder of how unpredictable and fragile public spaces can be. Zoos are designed to protect visitors from animals, but they cannot always protect them from the actions of other people. The incident raises difficult questions about mental health support, public safety, and how institutions can prepare for events that fall far outside the boundaries of normal risk.

Zookeeper Andrew Johnson and wife Tracey rescued a three-year-old who had been thrown 15ft into the enclosure (Picture: SWNS)

It’s impossible to overstate how close this came to disaster. A few seconds’ hesitation, a single misstep, or a crocodile reacting faster than expected could have changed the outcome entirely. Instead, the boy survived – although with critical injuries, the rescuers survived, and a moment that could have ended in unimaginable grief became a testament to instinctive bravery and the power of human compassion. This incident will undoubtedly spark conversations about safety barriers, visitor supervision, and emergency response protocols, but at its core, it remains a story about people who chose to act when it mattered most. In a world where headlines often focus on division and conflict, this moment stands out as a reminder of the courage that still exists quietly among us—courage that leaps into danger without hesitation when a life hangs in the balance.

Inside the Psychology of “Black Widow” Killers — And Why Their Stories Still Terrify Us

When most people imagine a serial killer, they picture a man: a stranger in the shadows, a predator driven by sadism or compulsion. But history — and the present — tell a different story. A quieter, more calculated kind of killer exists, one who moves through kitchens, bedrooms, and hospital rooms with disarming ease.

The “black widow” is a woman who kills the men closest to her — husbands, lovers, partners, or dependent elderly men — often for money, sometimes for sympathy, and occasionally for reasons far more complex. These women don’t fit the Hollywood stereotype of a serial killer. They fit into our homes, our families, our expectations.

And that is precisely what makes them so dangerous.

If you’re fascinated by the psychology behind these women, the patterns they follow, and the myths we build around them, my book Black Widows goes deeper than any headline ever could. But here’s a glimpse into the psychology that drives them.

What Makes a “Black Widow” Killer?

Criminologists define a black widow as a woman who murders three or more intimate partners, usually over years or decades. They make up less than 20% of serial killers, but their methods are often more subtle — and far harder to detect.

Unlike male serial killers, who tend to target strangers, black widows kill the people who trust them most. Their crimes unfold slowly, quietly, behind closed doors.

The Psychological Traits They Share

1. Financial Motivation

Many black widows are driven by money. They take out life insurance policies, forge signatures, or manipulate financial documents long before the murder occurs. This isn’t impulsive violence — it’s premeditated exploitation.

2. Victims They Know and Control

Their victims are rarely strangers. They are:

  • Husbands
  • Boyfriends
  • Elderly dependents
  • Boarders or patients

These relationships give them access, trust, and opportunity.

3. Covert Methods

Poisoning is the hallmark of the black widow. Arsenic, antifreeze, sedatives — substances that mimic natural illness and allow killers to avoid suspicion. Their violence is quiet, hidden behind caregiving roles or domestic routines.

4. High‑Functioning Psychopathy

Some black widows display traits such as:

  • Superficial charm
  • Manipulativeness
  • Lack of empathy
  • Criminal versatility

Dorothea Puente, for example, murdered boarders for their Social Security checks while presenting herself as a kindly grandmother.

5. The Sympathy Strategy

Some kill not just for money, but for attention. The grieving widow role brings community support, emotional validation, and a sense of power.

Behavioral Patterns That Reveal Their Intent

The Caregiver Advantage

Many black widows work in caregiving roles — nursing homes, hospitals, private care — giving them access to vulnerable victims and plausible explanations for sudden deaths.

Histories of Fraud

Before murder, there is often:

  • Check forgery
  • Identity theft
  • Insurance fraud
  • Embezzlement

Murder becomes the final escalation, not the starting point.

Isolation as a Tool

They often isolate victims from family, friends, or medical professionals, controlling the narrative and the environment.

Real Cases That Reveal the Pattern

Lyda Southard

Killed four husbands with arsenic, each death followed by an insurance payout.

Dorothea Puente

Murdered nine boarders, burying them in her yard while cashing their benefit checks.

These women didn’t need brute force. They needed trust — and they weaponized it.

Why Black Widows Terrify Us More Than Other Killers

Black widows force us to confront a truth we don’t like: violence doesn’t always look like we expect it to.

It can wear an apron. It can bring you soup. It can hold your hand at the hospital bedside. It can cry at your funeral.

Their power lies not in physical dominance, but in betrayal, in the weaponization of intimacy, in the exploitation of roles society assumes are safe.

And that is why their stories linger — because they reveal the darkest possibility of all: sometimes the person you trust most is the one you should fear.

Want to Go Deeper Into These Stories?

If this topic fascinates you, Black Widows is the most comprehensive exploration of female killers ever written — from Renaissance poisoners to modern‑day manipulators. It examines:

  • The psychology behind their crimes
  • The cultural myths that shape their reputations
  • The societal blind spots that allow them to kill undetected
  • The intimate, chilling stories of 50 women who weaponized domestic life

You can explore the full collection of cases — and the deeper psychological patterns behind them — in Black Widows.

Hey y’all! I wrote a book! 🎉

I’m thrilled to share that my latest (and first) novel, Black Widows, is now available on Amazon. If you’ve been following my work, you know it explores the power, resilience, and hidden strengths women find when the world underestimates them. Here’s a deep dive into what makes this story close to my heart:


🕷️ In‑Depth Synopsis: Black Widows

(True Crime Nonfiction)

Black Widows is a deep, unsettling dive into the lives and crimes of women who kill—not in sudden rage or desperation, but with calculation, patience, and intent. This true‑crime work examines 49 cases in which women used charm, manipulation, domestic roles, and caregiving positions to commit murder, often slipping under the radar for years.

Structured around detailed case studies, the book dismantles the stereotype that female killers are rare or inherently less violent. Instead, it reveals a hidden pattern: many of these women operated in plain sight, blending into their communities as wives, mothers, nurses, or caretakers. Their crimes often involved poison, financial schemes, insurance fraud, or the exploitation of vulnerable partners and dependents.

Throughout the book, you explore:
• how many of these women cultivated public personas of kindness and reliability while carrying out secret patterns of harm
• the social, cultural, and psychological factors that allowed them to evade suspicion
• law‑enforcement challenges in recognizing and prosecuting crimes committed without overt violence
• the blurred line between caregiver and predator when murder is committed through subtle, “invisible” means

Each chapter focuses on a different case, unraveling the motive, method, manipulation, and eventual downfall of the women often labeled as “black widows.” From classic poisoners to modern offenders who hid behind caregiving roles, the book exposes the ways gender stereotypes shielded them from scrutiny and, in some cases, allowed them to claim victims for years.

Black Widows does not sensationalize—it investigates, analyzes, and contextualizes. It’s a chilling reminder that danger does not always look like what we expect, and that some of the most shocking killers are the ones we are least conditioned to suspect.

Below is Helen and Olga (chapter 48).


✨ Check It Out

Grab your copy on Amazon right here:
Black Widows by Amanda Sheppard – Paperback & Kindle

I’d love to hear your thoughts—whether a review, a message, or just a note to say you grabbed a copy. Every review helps and word of mouth works wonders! Your support totally fuels what I write next, and I’m so grateful to have you along for the ride!

Stay tuned for more updates on my next project, Angels of Death, an investigative nonfiction book about shocking crimes committed by those in care roles.

Thanks for reading—and happy turning of pages! —Amanda

Thought of the Day

If we go the easy way, we never change.

Marina Abramović

I got this quote on May 7th from an email newsletter that I get. It really struck me, as we need to grow and change as we move through this life. Sometimes that change isn’t easy. Sometimes it’s depressing, disheartening, stressful, frustrating and even painful.

I found a great ring that I now wear all the time. It says “Keep fucking going”. And as I am struggling in the waters of life, it reminds me to never let the darkness win.

Be Kind to Animals Week (US – May 7th – May 13th 2023)

The first full week in May is “Be Kind to Animals” Week and has been going since 1915! Some sources say the entire month of May is a celebration of “Be Kind to Animals” – either way, it is a great way to honor our pets – both past and present – and teach our young people the proper way to care and help protect our precious animal populations.

Also, please try to be mindful of the animals you consume, if you do. Try to find products that are certified as humanely raised. We slaughter these animals for food, the least we can do is make sure the process is as pain free as humanly possible.

Dogtipper.com did such an excellent job going over this commemorative week that I don’t really need to say anything more!

Be Kind to Animals Week (4 Ways You Can Participate!)